Melbourne House for Men
Structured Residence for Men
High Levels of Support & Accountability
The Melbourne Men's House Recovery Residence is a NARR/Trohn Level III Certified home. Located near the Houston Heights neighborhood near Fulton Rd, HOEM offers a structured 12 Step inspired peer community for men who are determined to maintain abstinence and develop a recovery oriented lifestyle. HOEM bridges the delicate gap between inpatient treatment and independent living.
A typical weekday schedule for a residence consists of morning meditation, individual daily activities like working, volunteering and a 12 Step meeting, a resident prepared dinner and wrap-up. Our on-site staff offers Recovery Coaching to support residents as they work toward attaining realistic and meaningful recovery goals.
While there is no minimum or maximum length of stay, we encourage residents to stay at least 6 months to achieve the goals of emotional, spiritual and financial stability for a solid life foundation that consists of self-respect, self-esteem, self-efficacy and friendships that are healthy and supportive.
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Certifications
Admission
- Display a sincere desire for recovery
- Interview required
- Must be at least 18 years old
- Test drug-free & alcohol-free
- IOP Required
Manager Tel: 832-741-1949
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Testimonials
When I first came to live at The House of Extra Measures Sober Living, my life was in shambles. I had spent the last 20 years trapped in a relentless cycle of addiction, which had stripped away every semblance of hope, joy, and connection. My days were consumed by the hunt for the next fix, and my nights were filled with an overwhelming sense of despair. Homeless and aimlessly wandering the streets, I was a ghost of my former self, disconnected from family and friends, devoid of goals, and utterly without a will to live.
The moment I stepped through the doors of treatment, I was a broken person. I was exhausted —physically, mentally, and spiritually. The staff welcomed me with open arms, offering a sanctuary I desperately needed but never thought I deserved. Their kindness and understanding gave me a flicker of hope, a glimmer of light in the darkest period of my life.
The House of Extra Measures became my lifeline, offering the structure and discipline that I had lost sight of during my years of addiction. From the outset, they instilled in me the values of accountability, integrity, and perseverance. These principles became the bedrock of my recovery journey. Daily routines, chores, and responsibilities were not just tasks; they were lessons in reclaiming control over my life. Each day, I learned a little more about self-discipline, gradually rebuilding my shattered sense of self-worth.
One of the most pivotal steps in my recovery has been engaging with the 12-step program of Narcotics Anonymous. With the guidance of my sponsor, I began to confront my past, a daunting yet liberating process. The 12 steps provided a roadmap for my healing, helping me to face my mistakes, make amends, and develop a newfound sense of purpose. My sponsor’s unwavering support and wisdom were invaluable, guiding me through the most challenging moments. Today, I am proud to say that I have nine months clean and sober—an achievement that once seemed utterly out of reach.
Rebuilding relationships with my family and friends has been another profound transformation. My addiction had created deep rifts, filled with hurt and mistrust. Through honest conversations, apologies, and consistent efforts, I have started to mend these broken bonds. It has been a slow and sometimes painful process, but each step forward fills my heart with hope and gratitude. The support and forgiveness from my loved ones have been incredible, and I cherish these renewed connections deeply.
The House of Extra Measures also ignited a new sense of ambition within me. They encouraged me to set goals and pursue my dreams, something I hadn’t done in decades. With their support, I enrolled in school to work towards my Licensed Chemical Dependency Counselor (LCDC) degree. The thought of becoming a counselor and using my experiences to help others struggling with addiction fills me with a sense of purpose I never thought I would find again. My studies are challenging, but the knowledge that I am working towards a meaningful career drives me forward every day.
Being a part of the community at The House of Extra Measures has taught me the importance of giving back. I have become an active participant in local events, volunteer my time, and support my fellow residents. This sense of community has been transformative, helping me to understand the power of collective strength and mutual support. I have learned that I am not alone in this journey and that by helping others, I help myself.
My support network has been a cornerstone of my recovery. It includes my sponsor, fellow residents, and friends from recovery groups. This network provides constant encouragement, understanding, and accountability. We share our struggles and triumphs, lifting each other up and celebrating each milestone, no matter how small.Reflecting on my journey, I realize none of this would have been possible without The House of Extra Measures. Their unwavering support, guidance, and structure provided the foundation for my recovery. They believed in me when I couldn’t believe in myself, offering opportunities and resources when I had none. They taught me the importance of discipline, accountability, and integrity, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
Looking to the future, my goals are clear. I will continue to work towards my LCDC degree, and once achieved, dedicate myself to helping others in their recovery journeys. I am committed to living a life of integrity, accountability, and service, always remembering the second chance that The House of Extra Measures gave me. My dream is to give back to the recovery community, offering the same support and guidance that was so generously given to me.
This journey has been fraught with challenges, but it has also been filled with profound growth and transformation. For the first time in years, I am hopeful and excited about the future. My life is a testament to the power of recovery and the incredible impact of a supportive community. The House of Extra Measures has given me the tools, the courage, and the hope to reclaim my life, and for that, I am forever grateful.
Patrick H.- Resident